"Remember you cannot change your children. You can only change yourself. So, in what ways could you be different that would make life more peaceful for yourself? If you always do what you've always done, you will always get what you've always got." - Noel Swanson
As parents, we're always looking for ways to change our children. What we should be looking for is ways to change ourselves. I'm not just talking about modeling, or setting an example. While these are helpful, our children don't always follow our example. They are however, affected by our moods, behaviors and attitudes. By remaining calm and reasonable when they are upset we create a more corporate atmosphere in the home.